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LOOKING FOR LOVE WITHOUT THE SWIPES AND SCREENS?

We know the world of online dating can feel like a minefield - ghosting, endless messages, and connections that never quite make it offline. At The Courting Club, we’re doing things differently.

Our events aren’t your average mixers. We offer three unique event types designed to help you connect:

Singles Meet and Mingles: Relaxed, open events where everyone can get to know each other.
Invite-Only Evenings: Exclusive gatherings with curated guest lists for a more tailored experience.
Speed Dating Nights: Quick-fire introductions to keep things fun, dynamic, and engaging.

Don’t worry, you’re in safe hands. With professional and award-winning networkers and event hosts running the show; we’ll ensure every event is smooth, welcoming, and just the right amount of exciting.

Because sometimes, it’s better to meet people the old-fashioned way: face-to-face, with a bit of magic in the air.

MORE THAN JUST DATING: BUILDING A COMMUNITY

We get it - life changes, and so do friendships. Maybe you’ve hit an age where your friends are all paired off, or you’re coming out of a long-term relationship and feeling like your social circle has shifted. That’s where we come in.

At The Courting Club, we’re not just about finding “the one.” We’re here to help you build a community of support, friendship, and connection.

For the ladies: Make new friends, share laughs, and support each other as you navigate single life.

For the gents: Forge genuine friendships with like-minded people who know what it’s like to be single in today’s world.

We encourage everyone to refer their friends, expand the circle, and build a network where people genuinely look out for each other. Who knows? You might even find yourself saying, “You should meet my friend - you’d be perfect for each other!”

UPCOMING EVENTS

Excited to join us?

Our first events across Oxfordshire and Warwickshire have already launched!

Stay tuned for updates on our bespoke dating nights in your area.

Whether it’s a wine tasting, a casual pub evening, or something a little different, you’re guaranteed to meet other singles in a fun and friendly setting.

Oxford: 05.06.2025 - TOO LATE!

Banbury Summer Social: 24.07.2025

bicester - the bear: 04.09.2025

MEET THE FOUNDERS:
JEN & LISA

We’re Jen and Lisa, the hosts and founders of The Courting Club. As two friends with a shared passion for creating genuine connections, we started this venture to make dating - and meeting new people - an enjoyable experience again.

With years of experience organizing events and a knack for bringing people together, we’re here to help you feel at ease, have fun, and maybe even find that special someone.

Jen is a powerhouse of a business owner; running a virtual PA agency and a recruitment business while also hosting an award-winning business networking event in Bicester Town Centre.

Lisa-Jane, another force to be reckoned with, is an expert marketing consultant and owner of The Rumour Mill Creative Agency, she is also busy connecting people and hosting networking events in Warwick.

Not single? That’s okay. You’re still part of this story.

Sharing our posts, telling your single friends, or simply following our page doesn’t mean you’re interested in coming along; it means you’re supporting your friends who are single and helping them make real connections. It means you’re backing two gals with a dream, turning a small idea into something that’s already bringing people together.

Every like, share, and comment helps us grow, spread the word, and reach the people who need it most (those who are tired of swiping and ready for something real).

So thank you for helping us build this community. It’s not just about singles... it’s about connection, conversation, and community. And we couldn’t do it without you.

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You won’t find what you’re looking for sitting here… unless you’re after a dent in the sofa and another night of scrolling!

We get it! Putting yourself out there can feel like a big step. But if you’re looking for something real, it’s time to swap the couch for a night out.

Our next Singles Meet and Mingle is happening in Oxford this Thursday; it’s relaxed, fun, and all about making genuine connections with like-minded people aged 35-55.

Can’t make it to Oxford this week? No problem. We’ve got a whole bunch of Singles Meet and Mingles lined up in Banbury, Bicester, and Warwick... so check out our Eventbrite page for all the details. And keep your eyes peeled, because we’ve got more dates dropping soon!

Head to the link in our bio to book your spot, we’d love to see you there. Let’s find what you’re really looking for.

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This week’s vibe?
Tired of the apps? We get it.
Fancy trying something new? We get you.
Enjoyed the last one? We can’t wait to see you.

This Thursday, we’re heading to @sandyspianobar in Oxford—the perfect spot for all Oxfordshire singles to meet, mingle, and make some great new connections.

So why not ditch the swipes, grab your mates, and come and join us for a night of real conversations and even better company?

Tickets are flying—grab yours now via the link in our bio before they’re gone! 🎟️

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Gents… what are you waiting for?

You know what they say: if you want something to happen, you’ve got to make the first move. So, how long are you going to keep waiting for the perfect moment?

The Courting Club isn’t about swiping, ghosting, or wasting your time in the digital void. It’s about real people, real conversations, and a chance to meet someone who actually gets you.

It’s time to stop waiting around and start making memories.

Secure your ticket for our next event today – because if not now, when?

Head to our link in bio to check out our upcoming dates...
#TheCourtingClub #DatingOver35 #MeetYourMatch #DitchTheApps #OldFashionedDating #MenWhoDate #GentsWhoGetIt #MakeTheFirstMove

That's right, there's just one week left of our early bird pricing for our debut 'Singles Meet & Mingle' in #Oxford.

Join us on Thursday 5th June at the beautiful and atmospheric @sandyspianobar for our first ever in-person singles event in Oxford!

Visit the link in our bio to book your ticket now!

#dating #singlesnight #singlesnightout #oxford #sandyspianobaroxford #sandyspianobar #inpersondating #inpersondatingevents #thecourtingclub #courting #booknow

Sometimes the stars don’t align... and that’s okay!

We’re pressing pause on May's Singles Meet & Mingle in Bicester and putting all our energy into making Oxford a brilliant one in June. If you were booked for Bicester, we’ll be in touch personally to make sure you’re looked after. We can’t wait to see you soon — details coming shortly!

Lis & Jen
xoxo

🎉 We’re heading back to Bicester! 🎉

Get ready for a night of mingling, real connections, and maybe even meeting someone special! Join us on Thursday, 1st May at The Bear, Bicester (38 Market Square, Bicester OX26 6AH) from 7:30pm - 10pm.

It’s the perfect opportunity to step away from the screen and meet like-minded singles in person. Whether you’re looking for love or just a fun night out, you won’t want to miss this!

This is a TICKET ONLY EVENT, so book yours now via our Eventbrite page; spaces are limited, so don’t wait! Head to the link in our bio to secure your spot.

And don’t forget to share with your single friends... let’s make this an unforgettable night of new connections!

#BicesterEvent #MeetAndMingle #SinglesEvent #RealConnections #TheCourtingClub #BookNow #FindYourMatch #SingleAndReadyToMingle #LoveIn2025

Does this feel familiar? 🤳

If you're tired of swiping left and right and wondering if there's a better way, the good news is… THERE IS! 💡

It’s time to step away from the screen and start making real connections, face-to-face, where you can actually talk to people and see where things go. No more endless scrolling, no more being ghosted—it’s time for something different.

Head to our link in bio to check out our upcoming events and get ready to meet like-minded singles who are looking for the same thing you are. Let's put the apps down and start connecting the real way!

#RealConnections #MeetAndMingle #DoneWithSwiping #TheCourtingClub #SinglesEvent #BookYourSpot #RealLove #SinglesInWarwick #SinglesInBanbury #SinglesInBicester #SinglesInOxford #SinglesInLeamingtonSpa #WarwickshireSingles #OxfordshireSingles #NorthamptonshireSingles #FindLoveInWarwick #FindLoveInBanbury #FindLoveInBicester #MeetNewPeopleInWarwick #DatingInWarwickshire #Over35Singles #35PlusDating #MingleWithUs #RealConnectionsInPerson #DatingOver35 #SinglesMeetAndMingle #SinglesEventsUK

Oh Baby!

We’re back and heading to Warwick! 🎉

Join us at @Theglobewarwick on Thursday, 10th April from 7:30pm to 10pm for an evening of mingling, connecting, and maybe even finding that special someone.

This is for singles aged 35-55 who are tired of the online grind and ready to meet people in real life. It’s time to ditch the apps and step into the fun, in-person vibe of The Courting Club.

Secure your spot now via the link in our bio—tickets are available on Eventbrite!

Who knows? You might just meet the one… 😉

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✅ Single? Tired of swiping and ready to meet real people?

There’s ONE DAY left to grab your ticket for our Singles Meet and Mingle event tomorrow night! 🎉 If you’re aged 35-55 and looking for genuine connections (not just another screen), this is for you!

We’re creating a space for like-minded individuals who are done with the online dating grind and ready to meet people face-to-face. It’s going to be a night full of real conversations, laughs, and maybe even a spark or two.

Tickets are almost gone, so grab yours now before it’s too late! Don’t forget to share with your single friends—this is your chance to make a real connection!

#RealConnections #MeetAndMingle #TheCourtingClub #BanburyEvent #SingleAndReadyToMingle #DoneWithSwiping #GenuineConnections #LastChance #BookNow

Still swiping and looking for more?

You aren't alone.

There’s no need to keep swiping when you can meet real people in person! Our Singles Meet and Mingle event is just 2 days away, and there’s still time to grab your ticket!

Don’t miss out on the chance to make genuine connections in a fun, relaxed setting. Share this with your single friends and let’s make it a night to remember!

🎟️ Booking is essential, so head to the link in our bio to secure your spot now. Can’t wait to see you there! 🎟️

#RealConnections #MeetAndMingle #TheCourtingClub #SinglesEvent #BanburyEvent #StillSwiping #BookYourTicket #TheRealDeal

Valentine’s Day is over, and if it didn’t turn out quite how you hoped, why not take the opportunity to do something different?

Join us next week at our Singles Meet and Mingle in Banbury on Tuesday, 27th February at The Light, Lower Decks Bar. It’s a chance to connect, meet new people, and hopefully find that spark with someone new. 🌟

🎟️ Booking is essential, so make sure to grab your spot soon. We’d love to see you there, and don’t forget to tell your single friends—this is the night to make some real connections!

Couples: if you know someone who’s still looking for love, send them our way! Let’s help them find the connection they’ve been waiting for.

📅 See you on the 27th!

#BanburyEvent #SinglesEvent #RealConnections #MeetAndMingle #TheCourtingClub #ValentinesAfterparty #ConnectInBanbury #BookYourSpot
@thelight_banbury

February is here, the month of love, and aren’t we all just after the same thing really? We all want to feel that connection, the kind that makes us smile a little brighter and feel a little warmer. Whether it’s a friendship, a spark, or something more, it’s all about finding those moments that matter.

If you’re looking to make new connections this February, we’d love to see you at our Meet and Mingle in Banbury on Thursday, 27th February. It’s the perfect opportunity to step out, meet like-minded people, and see where the night takes you.

Tickets are available now—head to the link in our bio to secure your spot. Let’s make this month one to remember.

#MonthOfLove #RealConnections #BanburyEvent #MeetAndMingle #TheCourtingClub #FebruaryVibes #LoveInTheAir #StepOutAndConnect

Sometimes, it’s the simple things that remind us of the good old days; when things felt slower, more meaningful, and a bit more personal. Back then, connections were made face-to-face, conversations flowed naturally, and you could feel that spark in the air.

In today’s world of endless swipes and screens, it’s easy to forget how special those moments really were. But we’re bringing that back.

At The Courting Club, we’re creating spaces for real connections, no filters, no fast-forwarding, just authentic conversations and genuine moments. It’s about going back to the roots of what made dating and meeting people feel exciting, meaningful, and true.

Let’s step away from the noise and embrace those timeless connections.

#RealConnections #NostalgiaVibes #BackToTheBasics #AuthenticDating #TheCourtingClub #GenuineConnections #LoveIn2024 #TimelessMoments #DatingDoneRight

Sometimes, all it takes is a feeling. A sign. A moment where everything just clicks and you know you’ve found your people.

✨ This Must Be the Place ✨

If you’ve been searching for genuine connections, real conversations, and a place where you can be yourself, this is it. The Lower Decks Bar at @Thelight_banbury is the perfect spot for our next Meet and Mingle—and it might just be where you meet someone special, but more importantly, it’s where you’ll meet like-minded people who share your values, your energy, and your desire to connect.

If you’re looking for that sign to take the leap, here it is. We’re here to shake things up, reconnect, and make this year the one where you expand your circle and find new friendships. Whether it’s love, friendship, or just fresh faces, this must be the place for you.

We can’t wait to see you there. 🎟️ Head to the link in bio to book your tickets 🎟️

#ThisMustBeThePlace #RealConnections #MeetAndMingle #TheCourtingClub #BanburyEvent #FindYourPeople #GenuineConnections #FriendshipFirst #LookingForLove #YourSign

Finding the right balance is key! At The Courting Club, we’re all about creating the perfect mix of fun, friendship and genuine connections.

Here’s the recipe for a great night out with us:
🍸A slpash of mingling with the girls 👯‍♀️
🍸A dash of conversation with the guys 👬
🍸A pinch of networking and expanding your circle 🌐
🍸And, of course, a twist if meeting someone special in the process 💫

It’s not about ‘partner shopping’ or swiping endlessly; it’s about meeting new people and expanding your support network, and building meaningful friendships. Who knows, you might just meet someone special along the way. 💕

So, come and shake things up with us at our next event! Let’s put genuine connections back into the mix and enjoy the magic of meeting people the old-fashioned way.

#single #readyforconnections #relationship #dating #makingconnections #singlelife #brave #lookingforlove #readyforlove #banbury #oxfordshire

Fancy another date?

We are back for more and have just released another date for your diary! Mark your calendars—Thursday, 27th February from 7:30pm - 10pm, The Lower Decks Bar at The Light in Banbury. 🎉

This is a ticketed event, and tickets are available through Eventbrite! Head to the link in our bio to grab yours! 🎟️

We can’t wait to see you there, and here’s a special treat: Early Bird prices are available until midnight on Friday, 31st January—so grab your tickets at the lower rate quickly before they’re gone! ⏳

Our first event in Banbury, and it’s going to be a blast! We wanna make this a night to remember, so be sure to tag and share with your single friends!

#BanburyEvent #SinglesEvent #TheCourtingClub #MeetAndMingle #RealConnections #EventAlert #EarlyBirdTickets #BanburyNightlife #TicketedEvent #SaveTheDate #GrabYourTickets

🎶 Remember the good old days when a mixtape was the ultimate romantic gesture? Well, we’ve got something special for you!

If you’re still buzzing from the magic of our first event, we’ve created a special playlist on Spotify with all the great tunes that kept the energy high last week. 🌟 It’s the perfect way to relive those moments and keep the vibe going!

And guess what? Tickets for our next event in Banbury are NOW LIVE! So, while you’re enjoying the playlist, be sure to keep an eye on your inbox—our next Meet and Mingle is just around the corner.

🎧 Listen to the playlist, share it with your friends, and get ready for the next round of fun connections!

Link to the playlist and tickets in our link in bio!

#TheCourtingClub #MixtapeMagic #SinglesEvent #BanburyNext #RealConnections #KeepTheVibeAlive #MusicAndLove #SpotifyPlaylist #EventBuzz #TicketsNowLive

✨ Will we see you there?

We are absolutely thrilled to see so many singles signed up for our very first Singles Meet and Mingle tomorrow night at The Kings Arms Hotel Bar in Bicester!

There are just a few tickets left, so if you haven’t booked yours yet, don’t wait! This is a ticketed event, so you can’t just turn up on the night.

If you’re ready to meet like-minded singles and start 2024 with some exciting new connections, get your tickets now before they’re gone! 🎟️

👉 Grab you tickets here: https://bit.ly/3DwjNU0

🍸 Call us old fashioned, but... 🍸

We just preferred meeting people in person, ya know, before the apps took over. There’s something about real connections that just can’t be beat, right? How about you?

If you’re single and looking for love this year, we might just have the perfect tipple for you this January. Join us for The Courting Club’s FIRST EVER Meet and Mingle event, where you can step away from the screen and enjoy some real conversation (and maybe even a cocktail or two 😉).

Ready to ditch the swipes and find something real? We’ll see you in Bicester on Thursday 16th of Jan!

🎟️ Tickets are on sale now—link in bio!

#OldFashionedLove #RealConnections #MeetAndMingle #TheCourtingClub #SinglesEvent #LoveIn2024 #FirstDateOfTheYear #CocktailAndConnection

✨ 2025: Your Year.

It’s that time of year when everything feels possible—new goals, new focus, and a fresh start. If love is on your agenda for 2025, we want that for you too!

Let’s kick off the year right!. Take a step towards something exciting and real. Our FIRST EVER Meet and Mingle event is just around the corner, and tickets are on sale now to spice up your January! 💫

Don’t let another year go by without taking that leap. This could be your year for love, connection, and new beginnings.

🎟️ Grab your ticket now via the link in our bio!

#YourYear #NewYearNewConnections #Make2025YourYear #MeetAndMingle #TheCourtingClub #RealLove #FirstEventOf2025 #StartSomethingNew #TicketsOnSale

💖 Know anyone looking for love?

In just 2 weeks, The Courting Club is hosting our FIRST EVER Meet and Mingle event, and we couldn’t be more excited! 🎉

Do you know someone who's ready to meet someone new, make real connections, and have a good time? Then send them our way!

Tag them below, share this post, and help us spread the word! Whether they’re tired of swiping or just looking for something real, we’re here to make it happen.

Mark your calendars—Thursday, 16th January is the day! 🗓️ Spots are limited, so don’t miss out. Secure your tickets now via Eventbrite: https://bit.ly/3DwjNU0

#TheCourtingClub #LoveIn2025 #MeetAndMingle #FindYourMatch #RealConnections #DateNight #BookYourSpot #LoveIsWaiting #TagYourFriends

👀 You might be looking in the wrong place…

If swiping isn’t leading you to the connections you’re looking for, it might be time to try something new.

Join us for The Courting Club’s FIRST EVER Singles Meet & Mingle event on Thursday, 16th January in Bicester! It’s time to take the plunge, make new connections, and let go of the old way of doing things.

Tickets are available now—secure your spot via the link in our bio!

#RealConnections #MeetAndMingle #TheCourtingClub #StepIntoLove #FirstDateOfTheYear #GetOutThere #BookYourSpot

Know any singletons looking for love?

We’re reaching out to everyone who knows someone still searching for their match! If you have a single friend who’s tired of swiping, send them our way. Let them know about The Courting Club—where real connections happen offline!

Here’s the exciting news: Our FIRST event is happening on Thursday, 16th January! 🎉 Tickets are on sale now, so don’t miss out! Head to our link in bio to book a ticket!

Tag your single friends below 👇 or share our page with them to help us spread the love! 💖

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Don't get us wrong, we can't promise you'll meet someone at The Courting Club who you'll like enough to marry, or maybe getting married isn't for you.

But what WE mean by courting is a nod to the lesser-used term for dating.

The act of investing your time and energy into someone because you are a decent person looking for an honest and enjoyable relationship, and for those who no longer want to mess around being stood up and ghosted on Bumble and Hinge (other dating apps are available and don't we know it!).

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But where do you meet them?

Seriously though.... 👀

Tag someone special below and make their day 👇👇👇

#iknowjustthespot #justtheplace #theplacetobe #fomo #dontriskfomo #Thecourtingclub #singles #singlesevents #oxfordshire

Ever feel like there's something missing in the world of modern dating?
We have recently met A LOT of people feeling the same way, and looking for the same thing...

Stay tuned as we prepare to unveil a new way to connect. 💫

#ComingSoon #GenuineConnections #StayTuned #Excitingtimes #singlelife #inpersondatingisback

Picture this: Two individuals, both in their 30s, fresh out of long-term relationships. The world of dating has changed drastically since their last single days - dating apps, swiping right, and instant connections. It was overwhelming, to say the least. Whatever happened to the good old days of meeting people the old-fashioned way?

We found ourselves longing for the days when connections were forged through meaningful conversations, spontaneous encounters, and introductions by mutual friends. The excitement of sparking up conversations with strangers, making new friends, and discovering shared interests seemed like a distant memory. What about a good old-fashioned meet-cute? After all, isn't this how all good love stories start?

Digital profiles had taken the place of genuine introductions, and we realised something was missing - the human connection. We yearned for those serendipitous moments where a chance meeting could lead to something beautiful.

And so, The Courting Club was born. 🌹

Want to know more? Head over to the link in our bio to register your interest and find out about Oxfordshire's newest and best-kept secret for singles looking for genuine connection... 🫶

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Ready for a new beginning? Stay tuned for something special coming your way. 😉

Dying to know more? We're dying to tell you, head to the link in the bio to register now.

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